Books Quote by Maggie Nelson
““the perversity is not lost on me that the most oft-cited, well-respected, best-selling books about the caretaking of babies—Winnicott, Spock, Sears, Weissbluth— have been and are mostly still by men. On the front cover of The Baby Book—arguably one of the more progressive contemporary options (albeit oppressively heteronormative)—the byline reads “by William Sears (MD) and Martha Sears (RN).” This seems promising(ish), but nurse/wife/mother Martha’s voice appears only in anecdotes, italics, and sidebars, never as conarrator. Was she too busy taking care of their eight children to join in the first-person?””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Argonauts, Maggie Nelson, 2015
The quote highlights gender imbalance in parenting literature, noting male authors dominate while female voices are marginalized to peripheral roles.
In simple terms: Male authors dominate parenting books; women's perspectives are sidelined.
Recognize and amplify women's expertise in parenting discourse.
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When to use this quote
- parenting workshops
- book reviews
- academic curricula
- publishing decisions
- media analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we ensure women's voices are central in parenting resources?
- What impact does marginalizing women's perspectives have on parenting practices?
The quote may overlook male contributions or collaborative efforts that are not visible.