Expectations Quote by Lysa TerKeurst
““coated with unmet expectations. So, what do I do? Well, I’ve found it tremendously helpful to list the expectations I have of a relationship in which I’m feeling slighted. Then I prayerfully discern whether or not my expectations are realistic or unrealistic. And if I can’t really discern one way or the other, I ask. I ask God. I ask that person. I ask someone wise who knows both of us well.””
About This Quote
Source Book: “When God Doesn’t Give You the Answer” by Lysa TerKeurst, 2020
Listing relationship expectations and seeking wise counsel helps discern realistic needs and resolve feelings of being slighted
In simple terms: Clarify expectations and ask for guidance to address relationship hurts
Key Takeaway
Write down expectations, pray, and seek wise input
Themes
relationships
expectations
spiritual discernment
Mood
thoughtful
spiritual
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship conflict
- family disputes
- team dynamics
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Biblical counsel
communication
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations are truly yours versus projected?
- Who can you trust for honest, loving feedback?
A Different Perspective
May rely too heavily on external advice without personal introspection
