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Courtship Quote by Lynn Kurland

“What is wrong with the [tale of] Two Swords?" he asked, even more surprised. "Don't you care for it?" "There is too bloody much romance in it," she said curtly. Ah, well, here was the crux of it, apparently. "Don't you like romance?" he ventured. She looked as though she were trying to decide if…” quote by Lynn Kurland
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““What is wrong with the [tale of] Two Swords?" he asked, even more surprised. "Don't you care for it?" "There is too bloody much romance in it," she said curtly. Ah, well, here was the crux of it, apparently. "Don't you like romance?" he ventured. She looked as though she were trying to decide if she should weep or, as he had earlier predicted, stick him with whatever blade she could lay her, hand on. "I don't know," she said briskly. "I see," he said, though he didn't. He wished, absently, that he'd had at least one sister. He was very well versed in what constituted courtly behavior and appropriate formal wooing practices, thanks to his father's insistence on many such lectures delivered by a dour man whose only acquaintance with women had likely come from reading about them in a book, but he had absolutely no idea how to proceed with a woman whose first instinct when faced with something that made her uncomfortable was to draw her sword. ... "I'll stop provoking you, but I will have the answer to a question. Why do you think most men woo?" "Because they have no sword skill and need something with which to occupy their time?””

Lynn Kurland

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Swordsman's Tale, 2019

A man struggles with courtship rituals while a woman reacts violently to romance, highlighting mismatched expectations in love.

In simple terms: Men and women misread each other's signals in romance.

Key Takeaway

Communicate clearly to avoid misunderstandings.

Themes

courtship miscommunication gender roles romance conflict

Mood

conflicted hopeful tense

Type

dialogue dramatic conversational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • first meetings
  • conflict resolution
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

social expectations emotional intelligence power dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you interpret signals in new relationships?
  • What can you do when expectations clash?
A Different Perspective

Assumes all women react violently to romance, which is not universally true.

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