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Marriage advice Quote by Lynn Barber

“People say you shouldn't marry for looks but I disagree: if I tot up all the pleasure I got from looking at David over the years I'd say it amounted to a very substantial hill of beans.” quote by Lynn Barber
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““People say you shouldn't marry for looks but I disagree: if I tot up all the pleasure I got from looking at David over the years I'd say it amounted to a very substantial hill of beans.””

Lynn Barber

About This Quote

Source Article: The Marriage of Aesthetics, Lynn Barber, 2002

Physical attraction can be a significant source of pleasure in marriage, contrary to common advice to prioritize other qualities.

In simple terms: Looks can bring lasting joy in marriage.

Key Takeaway

Recognize attraction as a valid component.

Themes

marriage attraction pleasure social norms compatibility

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • dating advice
  • marriage counseling
  • personal reflections

Key Concepts

relationship dynamics psychology of attraction cultural expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is attraction essential for lasting love?
  • How to balance looks with other values?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on looks may overlook deeper compatibility.

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