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Existentialism Quote by Luke Davies

“Love of my life. Love. Of. My. Life. A retrospectively absurd concept since the most I can say is that he was the love of a particular period of my life, and that it is the random vagaries of life itself, and never love, that define time limits. Meaning, to be in love and wish for its immortality…” quote by Luke Davies
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““Love of my life. Love. Of. My. Life. A retrospectively absurd concept since the most I can say is that he was the love of a particular period of my life, and that it is the random vagaries of life itself, and never love, that define time limits. Meaning, to be in love and wish for its immortality is energy unwisely spent. The idea that we have any choice in the matter is the great illusion.””

Luke Davies

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Art of Writing, The Guardian, 2018

Love is a fleeting, contextual experience, not an eternal state; seeking permanence wastes energy.

In simple terms: Love is temporary and shaped by life’s randomness.

Key Takeaway

Accept love’s impermanence and live fully in the present.

Themes

love impermanence illusion time energy

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

essay philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • grief counseling
  • creative writing
  • mindfulness

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you cling to love as a timeless ideal?
  • How can you honor love without clinging?
A Different Perspective

Romantic idealism can cause disappointment when love changes.

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