Father Quote by Luigi Pirandello
“THE FATHER: But don't you see that the whole trouble lies here? In words, words. Each one of us has within him a whole world of things, each man of us his own special world. And how can we ever come to an understanding if I put in the words I utter the sense and value of things as I see them; while you who listen to me must inevitably translate them according to the conception of things each one of you has within himself. We think we understand each other, but we never really do.”
About This Quote
Language is a limited conduit; each person's internal world shapes how they interpret words, making true mutual understanding elusive.
In simple terms: Words fail to convey full meaning.
Communication is inherently filtered.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dialogue between strangers
- cross‑cultural exchange
- therapy sessions
- team meetings
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- designing clearer messaging
- facilitating active listening
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we test if we truly understand another?
- What practices reduce interpretive distortion?
Some argue shared symbols can bridge gaps, but even common vocabularies carry personal biases.