Deceiving others Quote by Lois
“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up. When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance. One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.”
About This Quote
Love is portrayed as a complex, evolving struggle that involves self-deception and eventual deception of others, challenging idealized romance notions.
In simple terms: Love is a battle and growth, not simple romance.
Key Takeaway
Recognize love’s messy reality.
Themes
love
conflict
growth
deception
romance
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
emotional
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- personal growth
- self-awareness
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
human relationships
emotional development
Questions to Reflect On
- How does self-deception shape love?
- Can love be healthy without deception?
A Different Perspective
Love can cause pain and disillusionment if expectations are unrealistic.
