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Deceiving others Quote by Oscar Wilde

“When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance.” quote by Oscar Wilde
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“When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance.”

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

Source Play: Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892

Love begins with self‑deception and ends by deceiving others, which society labels romance.

In simple terms: Love involves self‑deception and deceiving others.

Key Takeaway

Recognize romance’s illusion.

Themes

love deception romance human nature society

Mood

melancholic ironic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • marriage
  • dating culture

Key Concepts

existentialism social critique psychology of love

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we accept deception in love?
  • Can honesty coexist with romance?
A Different Perspective

Romantic idealism can mask truth.

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