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Firsts Quote by Lisa Jewell

“Friends can be a pain. They can be demanding and hard work. But maybe that's because they're the wrong friends. I read a quote once, can't remember who by, but they said that your friends aren't necessarily the people you like best, they're just the people who got there first.” quote by Lisa Jewell
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“Friends can be a pain. They can be demanding and hard work. But maybe that's because they're the wrong friends. I read a quote once, can't remember who by, but they said that your friends aren't necessarily the people you like best, they're just the people who got there first.”

Lisa Jewell

About This Quote

Friends may not be the ones you like most, but those who were there first.

In simple terms: Early friends aren’t always the best friends.

Key Takeaway

Evaluate friendships based on current value, not history.

Themes

relationships friendship social dynamics

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

personal psychological

When to use this quote

  • college life
  • career networking
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

attachment theory social support choice

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are your early friends still supportive?
  • How do you make space for new, healthier friendships?
A Different Perspective

Old friendships can become toxic over time.

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