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Circles Quote by Lisa Jewell

“I loved her more than she loved me, that was the problem. A basic imbalance. Relationships like that never last, however hard you try. And now she's pregnant and in love with a man who'll never love her the way she loves him. It's a series of vicious circles, and the only way to stop it is to find…” quote by Lisa Jewell
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“I loved her more than she loved me, that was the problem. A basic imbalance. Relationships like that never last, however hard you try. And now she's pregnant and in love with a man who'll never love her the way she loves him. It's a series of vicious circles, and the only way to stop it is to find someone who loves you the same. No power struggle. No insecurities. Just friendship. Because you can never be friends with someone if you love them too much.”

Lisa Jewell

About This Quote

Unrequited love creates imbalance and suffering; true partnership requires equal love, security, and friendship without power struggles.

In simple terms: Love must be mutual and balanced to work.

Key Takeaway

Seek equal, secure relationships.

Themes

love balance relationships self-worth

Mood

sad hopeful

Type

relationship emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • breakups
  • self-improvement

Key Concepts

emotional relationship

Practical Applications

  • Communicate needs
  • Find partners who reciprocate love

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are you settling for unequal love?
  • How can you foster friendship within romance?
A Different Perspective

One-sided love can persist despite effort.

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