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Burying Quote by Lisa Belkin

“There are no words to describe the pain of burying a child, and specifically there is no word to label their new, lifelong status. If you lose a spouse, you are a widow; if you lose a parent, you are an orphan. But what about when you lose a child? How do you name something you cannot comprehend?” quote by Lisa Belkin
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“There are no words to describe the pain of burying a child, and specifically there is no word to label their new, lifelong status. If you lose a spouse, you are a widow; if you lose a parent, you are an orphan. But what about when you lose a child? How do you name something you cannot comprehend?”

Lisa Belkin

About This Quote

Source Article: The New York Times, 2020

The author laments the lack of language for a parent’s loss of a child, exposing a gap in societal acknowledgment of this grief.

In simple terms: There’s no word for a parent who loses a child.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge and name this unique loss.

Themes

grief language parenthood loss empathy

Mood

somber empathetic

Type

reflective philosophical

When to use this quote

  • bereavement support
  • counseling
  • public discourse

Key Concepts

semantic void cultural recognition

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we create language for unheard grief?
  • What rituals help honor this loss?
A Different Perspective

Naming may not ease pain.

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