Burying Quote by Lisa Belkin
“There are no words to describe the pain of burying a child, and specifically there is no word to label their new, lifelong status. If you lose a spouse, you are a widow; if you lose a parent, you are an orphan. But what about when you lose a child? How do you name something you cannot comprehend?”
About This Quote
Source Article: The New York Times, 2020
The author laments the lack of language for a parent’s loss of a child, exposing a gap in societal acknowledgment of this grief.
In simple terms: There’s no word for a parent who loses a child.
Acknowledge and name this unique loss.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- bereavement support
- counseling
- public discourse
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we create language for unheard grief?
- What rituals help honor this loss?
Naming may not ease pain.