Dreams Quote by Lindy West
““No, no one thought that a spontaneous gang rape was going to take place just then on the stage of the Laugh Factory. But the threat of sexual violence never fully leaves women's peripheral vision. The point of Tosh's 'joke' was to remind that woman that she is vulnerable. More importantly, it reinforces the idea that comedy belongs to men. Therefore, men must be correct when they tell us what comedy is.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Atlantic, “The Joke That Went Too Far”, 2015
The quote highlights how jokes about sexual violence normalize threat and reinforce gendered control over comedy, suggesting men dictate comedic standards.
In simple terms: Jokes about assault keep women unsafe and keep comedy male‑dominated.
Challenge sexist norms in humor.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- stand‑up shows
- media analysis
- policy discussions
- educational workshops
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can comedy be inclusive without censoring?
- What responsibilities do comedians have regarding gender?
The quote may overgeneralize all male comedians and ignore supportive allies.