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Calling Quote by Leo Tolstoy

“The goal of our life should not be to find joy in marriage, but to bring more love and truth into the world. We marry to assist each other in this task. The most selfish and hateful life of all is that of two beings who unite in order to enjoy life. The highest calling is that of the man who has…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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“The goal of our life should not be to find joy in marriage, but to bring more love and truth into the world. We marry to assist each other in this task. The most selfish and hateful life of all is that of two beings who unite in order to enjoy life. The highest calling is that of the man who has dedicated his life to serving God and doing good, and who unites with a woman in order to further that purpose.”

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

Source Novel: War and Peace, 1869

Life’s purpose is not personal joy in marriage but to foster love, truth, and service to God, with marriage as a partnership for that higher mission.

In simple terms: Marriage should serve higher purpose, not selfish joy.

Key Takeaway

Seek love and truth through partnership.

Themes

marriage purpose spirituality

Mood

philosophical inspirational

Type

literary spiritual

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • community service
  • spiritual practice
  • marital counseling

Key Concepts

service self‑lessness religion

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can couples align personal goals with higher purpose?
  • What challenges arise when marriage is seen as a mission?
A Different Perspective

Idealistic view may overlook personal compatibility.

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