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Evans Quote by Laurie Halse Anderson

“IT happened. There is no avoiding it, no forgetting. No running away, or flying, or burying, or hiding. Andy Evans raped me in August when I was drunk and too young to know what was happening. It wasn’t my fault. He hurt me. It wasn’t my fault. And I’m not going to let it kill me. I can grow.” quote by Laurie Halse Anderson
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““IT happened. There is no avoiding it, no forgetting. No running away, or flying, or burying, or hiding. Andy Evans raped me in August when I was drunk and too young to know what was happening. It wasn’t my fault. He hurt me. It wasn’t my fault. And I’m not going to let it kill me. I can grow.””

Laurie Halse Anderson

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Guardian, 2021

A survivor asserts agency over trauma, refusing victimhood and choosing growth despite past abuse.

In simple terms: Survivor chooses growth over being defined by trauma.

Key Takeaway

Own your story, pursue healing.

Themes

trauma resilience agency growth

Mood

determined hopeful empowered

Type

personal motivational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • support groups
  • personal therapy
  • advocacy
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

psychology empowerment healing

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you support others facing similar trauma?
  • What steps help you maintain resilience?
A Different Perspective

Healing can be non‑linear and may trigger painful memories.

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