Death Quote by Laurell K. Hamilton
““You cannot die from grief, though it feels like you can. A heart does not actually break, though sometimes you chest aches as if it is breaking. Grief dims with time. It is the way of things. There comes a day when you smile again, and you feel like a traitor. How dare I feel happy. How dare I be glad in a world my father is no more. And then you cry fresh tears, because you do not miss him so much as you once did, and giving up your grief is another kind of death.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Merry Gentry series by Laurell K. Hamilton, 2000
Grief fades over time, but happiness after loss can feel guilty; moving on is a form of rebirth.
In simple terms: Grief lessens, happiness feels strange.
Allow yourself to heal.
Themes
Mood
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When to use this quote
- support groups
- personal reflection
- memorial rituals
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you reconcile joy after loss?
- What does “giving up grief” mean?
Healing may feel like betrayal to the departed.