Attracted Quote by Kiersten White
““If you don't want to-I mean, genuinely are not attracted to me, do not think of me that way, cannot stomach the thought of touching me-then I would understand and I would never press the issue again. But that's not how you feel.' 'How do you know?' I snap. 'Because I'm very pretty.' I whip my head around to glare at him; he's smiling like he couldn't be more amused. 'You aren't that pretty.' 'I am to you...' 'You are unbelievable.' 'I am, aren't I?' 'Unbelievable arrogant.' 'Not arrogant. Confident. There's a difference.' 'Which you clearly do not understand.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Girl Who Wasn't There” (fictional dialogue)
A character asserts that attractiveness and confidence are distinct, challenging the speaker’s perception of arrogance versus self‑assurance.
In simple terms: Confidence and beauty are different; confidence isn’t arrogance.
Key Takeaway
Confidence isn’t arrogance; own your worth.
Themes
self‑esteem
confidence
perception
communication
gender dynamics
Mood
assertive
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- workplace negotiations
- confronting assumptions
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
Self‑identity
social interaction
assertiveness
Questions to Reflect On
- When do you feel your confidence is misunderstood?
- How can you convey confidence without seeming arrogant?
A Different Perspective
Confidence can be misread as arrogance, leading to conflict.
