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Care Quote by Kay Redfield Jamison

“Others would say to me, 'It is only temporary, it will pass, you will get over it,' but of course they had no idea how I felt, although they were certain that they did. Over and over and over I would say to myself, If I can't feel, if I can't move, if I can't think, and I can't care, then what…” quote by Kay Redfield Jamison
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“Others would say to me, 'It is only temporary, it will pass, you will get over it,' but of course they had no idea how I felt, although they were certain that they did. Over and over and over I would say to myself, If I can't feel, if I can't move, if I can't think, and I can't care, then what conceivable point is there in living?”

Kay Redfield Jamison

About This Quote

Source Book: An Unquiet Mind by Kay Redfield Jamison, 1995

The speaker feels misunderstood by others who dismiss deep emotional pain as temporary, leading to existential despair when numbness overwhelms.

In simple terms: People often minimize deep suffering, causing feelings of isolation and hopelessness.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic support and acknowledge the depth of your pain.

Themes

mental health empathy existential crisis misunderstanding

Mood

sad lonely reflective

Type

personal psychological existential

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • friend conversations
  • support groups
  • self‑reflection
  • journaling

Key Concepts

psychology depression emotional validation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you communicate your experience so others understand?
  • What steps can you take when feeling numb?
A Different Perspective

Dismissal of pain can deepen isolation and hinder recovery.

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