Abandoned Quote by Kay Redfield Jamison
““I long ago abandoned the notion of a life without storms, or a world without dry and killing seasons. Life is too complicated, too constantly changing, to be anything but what it is. And I am, by nature, too mercurial to be anything but deeply wary of the grave unnaturalness involved in any attempt to exert too much control over essentially uncontrollable forces. There will be propelling, disturbing elements, and they will be there until, as Lowell put it, the watch is taken from the wrist.””
About This Quote
Source Book: An Unquiet Mind, 1995
Life’s inherent chaos makes total control impossible; we must accept change and the unpredictable nature of existence.
In simple terms: Accept life’s chaos; control is limited.
Embrace uncertainty.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- mental health coping
- philosophical reflection
- stress management
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we balance acceptance with proactive action?
- What strategies help cope with life’s unpredictability?
Attempting total control leads to frustration and burnout.