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Breeding Quote by Kathleen Norris

“Like faith, marriage is a mystery. The person you're committed to spending your life with is known and yet unknown, at the same time remarkably intimate and necessarily other. The classic seven-year itch may not be a case of familiarity breeding ennui and contempt, but the shock of having someone…” quote by Kathleen Norris
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“Like faith, marriage is a mystery. The person you're committed to spending your life with is known and yet unknown, at the same time remarkably intimate and necessarily other. The classic seven-year itch may not be a case of familiarity breeding ennui and contempt, but the shock of having someone you thought you knew all too well suddenly seem a stranger. When that happens, you are compelled to either recommit to the relationship or get the hell out. There are many such times in a marriage.”

Kathleen Norris

About This Quote

Marriage blends familiarity with mystery; deep intimacy coexists with unknown aspects, requiring continual recommitment.

In simple terms: Marriage is known yet unknown.

Key Takeaway

Embrace mystery, renew commitment.

Themes

marriage intimacy growth commitment

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • long‑term partnership
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Existential mystery relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What unknown aspects deepen your bond?
  • How do you navigate the familiar‑unknown tension?
A Different Perspective

Ignoring mystery can breed resentment.

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