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Sensitive Quote by Julian Barnes

“When we are young and sensitive, we are also at our most hurtful; whereas when the blood begins to slow, when we feel less sharply, when we are more armoured and have learnt how to bear hurt, we tread more carefully.” quote by Julian Barnes
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““When we are young and sensitive, we are also at our most hurtful; whereas when the blood begins to slow, when we feel less sharply, when we are more armoured and have learnt how to bear hurt, we tread more carefully.””

Julian Barnes

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes, 2011

Youthful sensitivity makes us both vulnerable and capable of causing deep pain; with age we gain emotional armor and learn to handle hurt more carefully.

In simple terms: Young people hurt easily; older people handle pain better.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate empathy and patience as you age.

Themes

sensitivity hurt emotional growth

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • parenting
  • workplace conflict
  • personal development

Key Concepts

psychology empathy resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your age affect how you respond to hurt?
  • What can you do to protect younger selves?
A Different Perspective

Older age does not guarantee wisdom; some remain reactive.

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