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Love Quote by Josh Sundquist

“After all, truth is not always a virtue when it is pursued for its own sake or, worse, simply to make its teller feel morally superior. That's the problem with those who let the rules of religion overshadow its spirit -- which is, of course, love. And grace. In other words, there are times when…” quote by Josh Sundquist
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““After all, truth is not always a virtue when it is pursued for its own sake or, worse, simply to make its teller feel morally superior. That's the problem with those who let the rules of religion overshadow its spirit -- which is, of course, love. And grace. In other words, there are times when telling an outright lie may be the most loving thing a person can do.””

Josh Sundquist

About This Quote

Source Essay: The New York Times, 2018

He argues that truth can be harmful when used to feel morally superior; sometimes compassion outweighs honesty.

In simple terms: Truth isn’t always kind; love may require a lie.

Key Takeaway

Consider compassion over blunt honesty.

Themes

ethics truth compassion religion morality

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • public discourse

Key Concepts

integrity empathy social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is a lie justified for love?
  • How do we balance honesty and empathy?
A Different Perspective

Truth can damage trust if wielded arrogantly.

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