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“Your notions of friendship arenew to me; I believe every man is born with his quantum, and he cannot give to one without robbing another. I very well know to whom I would give the first place in my friendship, but they are not in the way, I am condemned to another scene, and therefore I distribute…” quote by Jonathan Swift
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“Your notions of friendship arenew to me; I believe every man is born with his quantum, and he cannot give to one without robbing another. I very well know to whom I would give the first place in my friendship, but they are not in the way, I am condemned to another scene, and therefore I distribute it inpennyworths to those about me, and who displease me least, and should do the same to my fellow prisoners if I were condemned to a jail.”

Jonathan Swift

About This Quote

Source Essay: 1755, “A Modest Proposal” style satire on friendship and self‑interest

Friendship is limited; one cannot give fully without losing something, leading to selfish distribution of affection

In simple terms: Friendship is scarce and often selfish

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address selfishness in relationships

Themes

friendship self‑interest human nature philosophy morality

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical satirical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace dynamics
  • political alliances
  • community building
  • prisoner’s dilemma

Key Concepts

Reciprocity quantum metaphor social contracts

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you think true selfless friendship exists?
  • How do you balance self‑interest with generosity?
A Different Perspective

The analogy may oversimplify complex human bonds and ignore altruism

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