Every man Quote by Jonathan Swift
“Your notions of friendship arenew to me; I believe every man is born with his quantum, and he cannot give to one without robbing another. I very well know to whom I would give the first place in my friendship, but they are not in the way, I am condemned to another scene, and therefore I distribute it inpennyworths to those about me, and who displease me least, and should do the same to my fellow prisoners if I were condemned to a jail.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: 1755, “A Modest Proposal” style satire on friendship and self‑interest
Friendship is limited; one cannot give fully without losing something, leading to selfish distribution of affection
In simple terms: Friendship is scarce and often selfish
Recognize and address selfishness in relationships
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace dynamics
- political alliances
- community building
- prisoner’s dilemma
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you think true selfless friendship exists?
- How do you balance self‑interest with generosity?
The analogy may oversimplify complex human bonds and ignore altruism