Able Quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
““So she had to satisfy herself with the idea of love – loving the loving of things whose existence she didn’t care at all about. Love itself became the object of her love. She loved herself in love, she loved loving love, as love loves loving, and was able, in that way, to reconcile herself with a world that fell so short of what she would have hoped for. It was not the world that was the great and saving lie, but her willingness to make beautiful and fair, to live a once-removed life, in a world once-removed from the one in which everyone else seemed to exist.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer, 2005
She finds solace by turning love into a self‑referential ideal, using it to soften a disappointing reality.
In simple terms: She loves love to cope with a world that falls short.
Key Takeaway
Embrace love as a personal refuge.
Themes
self‑reflection
coping
idealism
Mood
melancholic
reflective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal loss
- creative writing
- philosophical contemplation
Key Concepts
metacognition
self‑love
escapism
Questions to Reflect On
- How does idealizing love affect your perception of reality?
- Can love be both a shield and a cage?
A Different Perspective
Love may become a self‑absorbing illusion, limiting real connection.
