Children Quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
“In the past seven years of love-making he had heard the words "I love you" so many times: from the mouths of widows and children, from prostitutes, family friends, travelers, and adulterous wives. Women said "I love you" without his ever speaking. "The more you love someone," he came to think, "the harder it is to tell them." It surprised him that strangers didn't stop each other on the street to say "I love you".”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer, 2005
The narrator reflects on hearing "I love you" from many sources, realizing love is hard to express and often unreciprocated.
In simple terms: Love is heard often but hard to say back.
Cherish genuine expressions of love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- writing
- therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why is love harder to say than to hear?
- How do we balance giving and receiving love?
May overlook cultural differences in expressing affection.