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“In the past seven years of love-making he had heard the words "I love you" so many times: from the mouths of widows and children, from prostitutes, family friends, travelers, and adulterous wives. Women said "I love you" without his ever speaking. "The more you love someone," he came to think…” quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
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“In the past seven years of love-making he had heard the words "I love you" so many times: from the mouths of widows and children, from prostitutes, family friends, travelers, and adulterous wives. Women said "I love you" without his ever speaking. "The more you love someone," he came to think, "the harder it is to tell them." It surprised him that strangers didn't stop each other on the street to say "I love you".”

Jonathan Safran Foer

About This Quote

Source Novel: Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer, 2005

The narrator reflects on hearing "I love you" from many sources, realizing love is hard to express and often unreciprocated.

In simple terms: Love is heard often but hard to say back.

Key Takeaway

Cherish genuine expressions of love.

Themes

love communication loneliness

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • writing
  • therapy

Key Concepts

psychology relationships human experience

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why is love harder to say than to hear?
  • How do we balance giving and receiving love?
A Different Perspective

May overlook cultural differences in expressing affection.

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