Dilemma Quote by Jonathan Kellerman
“Therapist’s dilemma: those who need help the most, run the farthest from it.”
About This Quote
People who are most in need of help often avoid it the most, creating a paradox of resistance and vulnerability.
In simple terms: Those needing help often avoid it.
Key Takeaway
Recognize resistance and offer gentle outreach.
Themes
psychology
help
avoidance
paradox
Mood
empathetic
reflective
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- family crises
- addiction recovery
- mental health outreach
Key Concepts
self‑sabotage
stigma
trust issues
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do you resist help when you need it?
- How can you create a safe space for those who flee assistance?
A Different Perspective
Even when help is offered, fear of judgment can block acceptance.
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