Attachment Quote by Jonathan Haidt
“The psychological origins of love are in attachment to parents and sexual partners. We do not attach to ourselves; we do not seek security and fulfillment in ourselves.”
About This Quote
Love arises from early attachment patterns, linking adult bonds to childhood relationships and limiting self‑sufficiency.
In simple terms: Love is rooted in early attachments, not self‑reliance.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑compassion and secure attachment.
Themes
psychology
relationships
development
self‑esteem
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy
- parenting
- personal growth
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
attachment theory
evolutionary psychology
self‑concept
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you nurture a secure sense of self?
- What early attachments shape your adult relationships?
A Different Perspective
Self‑attachment can be developed through intentional practice.
![“The Lord says that abhorrence is beneficial. Love-attachment [Prem-raag] will never leave. The entire world is trapped in the suffering due to love-attachment (prem-parishaha). Just say your greetings from afar and become free.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/b43/dada-bhagwan-31_attachment_the-lord-says-that-abhorrence-is-benefic_1481699.jpg)
