Advice Quote by John Steinbeck
““You know how advice is - you only want it if it agrees with what you wanted to do anyways.””
About This Quote
People seek advice that confirms their preexisting intentions, using it to validate rather than challenge their plans.
In simple terms: Confirmation bias in seeking advice.
Key Takeaway
Advice is often a mirror, not a guide.
Themes
cognition
bias
decision-making
self-justification
psychology
Mood
reflective
skeptical
Type
observation
aphorism
When to use this quote
- making a career choice
- choosing a partner
- purchasing a big ticket item
- deciding on a health regimen
Key Concepts
confirmation bias
cognitive dissonance
self-affirmation
Practical Applications
- personal coaching
- marketing messaging
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we prefer advice that aligns with our desires?
- How can we recognize when advice is merely affirmation?
A Different Perspective
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