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Small towns Quote by John Irving

“...but I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar -- you live next to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace. My cousins were both small-towners and outsiders; they had not grown up with Own Meany…” quote by John Irving
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““...but I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar -- you live next to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace. My cousins were both small-towners and outsiders; they had not grown up with Own Meany, who was so strange to them that he inspired awe - yet they were no more likely to fall upon him, or to devise ways to torture him, than it was likely for a herd of cattle to attack a cat.””

John Irving

About This Quote

Source Novel: The World According to Garp by John Irving, 1978

Small towns make the familiar seem strange, and strangers become ordinary over time, blurring the line between awe and indifference.

In simple terms: Familiarity dulls novelty, making oddities seem normal.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when routine masks uniqueness.

Themes

community perception normalcy identity

Mood

reflective nostalgic

Type

observational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • urban planning
  • cultural studies
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

social dynamics psychology anthropology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does familiarity affect judgment?
  • When do we overlook the extraordinary?
A Different Perspective

Even in small towns, outsider perspectives can reveal hidden complexities.

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