Love Quote by John Crowley
““He learned, though slowly, what all great harrowed lovers learn: that love is what most surely compels love -- is perhaps, except for brute force, the only thing that does, though only (and this was the terrible gift he had been given) when the lover truly believes, as August could, that when his love is strong enough it must surely be returned -- and August's was.””
About This Quote
Love compels love; when a lover truly believes in the depth of their feeling, they expect it to be reciprocated, making belief itself a powerful, sometimes burdensome, catalyst.
In simple terms: Belief in love forces love to return.
Key Takeaway
Expectations shape relational dynamics.
Themes
love
belief
reciprocity
psychology
human nature
Mood
poignant
thoughtful
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- first‑date expectations
- long‑distance relationships
- marital counseling
- friendship dynamics
Key Concepts
self‑fulfilling prophecy
emotional dependency
Practical Applications
- cultivate realistic expectations
- communicate feelings openly
Questions to Reflect On
- How does belief influence your relationships?
- When can expectation become a burden?
A Different Perspective
Assuming love must be returned can create pressure and disappointment if the other party feels differently.
