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Lesson Quote by Christie Hodgen

“This was the lesson we kept learning over and over and over, the lesson our mother was best capable of teaching us. Love—whatever else it might or might not be—was fleeting. Love stormed into your life and occupied it, it took over every corner of your soul, made itself comfortable, made itself…” quote by Christie Hodgen
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““This was the lesson we kept learning over and over and over, the lesson our mother was best capable of teaching us. Love—whatever else it might or might not be—was fleeting. Love stormed into your life and occupied it, it took over every corner of your soul, made itself comfortable, made itself wanted, then treasured, then necessary, love did all of this and then it did next the only thing it had left to do, it retreated, it vanished, it left no trace of itself. Love was horrifying.””

Christie Hodgen

About This Quote

Source Short story: “The Lesson of Love”, 2018

Love is intense, all‑consuming, and ultimately fleeting, leaving a lingering horror after it disappears.

In simple terms: Love is powerful but temporary, and can feel terrifying.

Key Takeaway

Accept love’s impermanence.

Themes

love transience emotion loss

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • grief counseling
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

attachment impermanence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does love teach you about vulnerability?
  • How can you honor love without fearing its loss?
A Different Perspective

Focusing only on love’s pain may overlook its joy and growth.

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