Advice Quote by John Churton Collins
“To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten to tout for flattery.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Art of Flattery”, 1905
Seeking advice often masks a desire for praise, suggesting motives can be self‑serving rather than sincere.
In simple terms: Advice requests may hide flattery.
Key Takeaway
Beware of hidden motives when seeking counsel.
Themes
motivation
flattery
advice
Mood
cautious
analytical
Type
ethical
psychological
When to use this quote
- business negotiations
- personal coaching
- team meetings
- political lobbying
Key Concepts
Psychology of persuasion
communication ethics
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- When is seeking advice genuine?
- How can you detect flattery?
A Different Perspective
May overlook genuine mentorship.
