Common Quote by John Allen Paulos
“I used to be surprised and even depressed when I met someone I had admired and discovered him or her to be a jerk or, perhaps worse, rather common. Now I half expect this reaction and even find it a little reassuring, maybe even uplifting. Isn't it amazing that somebody like that could produce such and such.”
About This Quote
The speaker reflects on disappointment when admired people turn out ordinary, yet now sees this as reassuring and uplifting, recognizing that greatness can coexist with mediocrity.
In simple terms: Realizing that admired people can be flawed can be comforting and even inspiring.
Key Takeaway
Accept imperfections in role models as a source of growth.
Themes
disappointment
admiration
humanity
expectations
growth
Mood
reflective
optimistic
balanced
Type
analytical
inspirational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career mentorship
- personal relationships
- public speaking
- media consumption
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
self‑awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance admiration with realistic expectations?
- What can you learn from a role model’s flaws?
A Different Perspective
The view may downplay the impact of repeated disappointment.
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