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Brotherhood Quote by Joe Abercrombie

“What? A family?” Ninefingers frowned, rubbing grimly at the stump of his middle finger. “I did have one. And now I’ve got another. You don’t pick your family, you take what you’er given and you make the best of it.” He pointed at Ferro, then at Quai. “You see her, and him, and you?” He slapped his…” quote by Joe Abercrombie
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““What? A family?” Ninefingers frowned, rubbing grimly at the stump of his middle finger. “I did have one. And now I’ve got another. You don’t pick your family, you take what you’er given and you make the best of it.” He pointed at Ferro, then at Quai. “You see her, and him, and you?” He slapped his hand down on Jezal’s shoulder. “That’s my family now, and I don’t pal on losing a brother today, you understand?””

Joe Abercrombie

About This Quote

Source Novel: The First Law Trilogy, The Blade Itself, 2006

Family is chosen through bonds formed in hardship, not just blood; we must accept and protect those we become close to.

In simple terms: Chosen family matters more than blood.

Key Takeaway

Embrace and protect those you consider family.

Themes

family loyalty choice loss brotherhood

Mood

determined reflective

Type

narrative thematic

When to use this quote

  • war
  • survival
  • team building
  • personal loss
  • new alliances

Key Concepts

social bonds identity responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who have you chosen as family beyond blood?
  • How do you honor those bonds in difficult times?
A Different Perspective

May overlook biological ties, causing conflict with existing relatives.

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