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Children Quote by Jhumpa Lahiri

“You will have a wife, and children of your own, and they will want to be driven to different places at the same time. No matter how kind they are, one day they will complain about visiting your mother, and you will get tired of it too...You will miss one day, and another, and then she will have to…” quote by Jhumpa Lahiri
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““You will have a wife, and children of your own, and they will want to be driven to different places at the same time. No matter how kind they are, one day they will complain about visiting your mother, and you will get tired of it too...You will miss one day, and another, and then she will have to drag herself onto a bus just to get herself a bag of lozenges.””

Jhumpa Lahiri

About This Quote

Source Short story: “The Bus Ride”, 2015

Family responsibilities and generational expectations create fatigue and longing, highlighting the tension between duty and personal desire.

In simple terms: Family duties cause exhaustion and yearning for personal space.

Key Takeaway

Balance personal needs with family obligations.

Themes

family duty fatigue generational tension

Mood

empathetic thoughtful

Type

relational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • daily commuting
  • parenting
  • caregiver stress
  • balancing work and family

Key Concepts

sociology psychology role conflict

Questions to Reflect On

  • What boundaries can you set with family?
  • How do you recharge after caregiving?
A Different Perspective

May overlook individual agency; assumes universal experience.

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