Children Quote by Jerold J. Kreisman
““She felt like a child clad in the armour of an adult. She was perplexed at the respect she received from other adults; she expected them to see through her disguise at any moment, revealing her as an empress with no clothes. She needed someone to love and protect her from the world. She desperately sought closeness, but when someone came too close, she ran.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Lonely Crowd by David Riesman, 1950 (paraphrased)
A child‑like adult hides behind a façade, craving love but fleeing intimacy when approached.
In simple terms: Adult hides behind childlike armor, seeks love, runs from closeness.
Recognize and balance vulnerability with openness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- therapy
- family dynamics
- friendship
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we build protective personas?
- How can we safely allow closeness?
May oversimplify complex adult attachment issues.