Emotional connection Quote by Jeanette Winterson
““Memories separated in time are often recalled side by side-there's an emotional connection that has nothing to do with the diary dates and everything to do with the feeling. Remembering isn't like visiting a museum: Look! There's the long-gone object in a glass case. Memory isn't an archive. Even a simple memory is a cluster. Something that seemed so insignificant at the time suddenly becomes the key when we remember it at a particular time later. We're not liars or self-deceivers-OK, we are all liars and self-deceivers, but it's a fact that our memories change as we do. Some memories, though, don't seem to change a all. They are sticky with pain. And even when we are not, consciously, remembering our memories, they seem to remember us. We can't shake free of their effect. There's a great-term for that-the old present. These things happened in the past, but they're riding right up front with us every day. (245-6)””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Passion, Jeanette Winterson, 1987
Memories are fluid, linking emotions across time, reshaping as we change, and some remain painful and persistent.
In simple terms: Memories change with us, some stay painful.
Key Takeaway
Accept memory fluidity, notice emotional triggers.
Themes
memory
emotion
identity
psychology
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- creative writing
- personal reflection
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
temporal association
subjective reconstruction
emotional resonance
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you notice memory shifts?
- Which memories feel most sticky?
A Different Perspective
Memories can be unreliable, leading to false confidence.
