Adages Quote by Jane Swisshelm
“It is an old adage, "All is fair in love as in war," but I thought not of general laws, and only felt a private grievance.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: 19th‑century feminist writing
The author critiques the notion that “all is fair in love and war,” arguing that personal grievances should not be justified by such maxims.
In simple terms: She rejects using old sayings to excuse personal grievances.
Do not let adages excuse personal wrongdoing.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- legal disputes
- romantic conflicts
- personal vendettas
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to invoke “all is fair”?
- How can we address grievances without moral shortcuts?
Relying on vague sayings can obscure accountability.