Affected Quote by Jane Austen
“You are mistaken, Mr. Darcy, if you suppose that the mode of your declaration affected me in any other way, than as it spared the concern which I might have felt in refusing you, had you behaved in a more gentlemanlike manner.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, 1813
A character rejects a proposal not because of the proposal itself but because of the manner in which it is presented, emphasizing the importance of respectful communication.
In simple terms: Respectful communication matters more than the act itself.
Key Takeaway
Mind how you present requests.
Themes
courtesy
romance
social norms
Mood
thoughtful
formal
Type
literary
romantic
When to use this quote
- dating
- business negotiations
- friendship offers
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
pride
prejudice
gentlemanly conduct
Questions to Reflect On
- How does tone affect the reception of a message?
- Can you separate the message from its delivery?
A Different Perspective
If the content is sincere, poor delivery can still cause rejection.
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