Attitude Quote by Jane Austen
“There will be little rubs and disappointments everywhere, and we are all apt to expect too much; but then, if one scheme of happiness fails, human nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second better: we find comfort somewhere.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Emma by Jane Austen, 1815
When expectations fail, people adapt by seeking new sources of comfort and happiness.
In simple terms: People adjust expectations when plans fail.
Key Takeaway
Embrace flexibility and seek new comfort.
Themes
adaptability
expectations
resilience
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- relationship setbacks
- career setbacks
- personal goals
- health challenges
Key Concepts
human nature
coping mechanisms
optimism
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize when to adjust expectations?
- What new comforts can you cultivate?
A Different Perspective
Adaptation may lead to perpetual dissatisfaction if not balanced.
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