Love Quote by Jane Austen
““...since we see everyday that where there is affection, young people are seldom withheld by immediate want of fortune from entering into engagements with each other, how can I promise to be wiser than so many of my fellow creatures if I am tempted, or how am I even to know that it would be wisdom to resist? All that I can promise you, therefore, is not to be in a hurry. I will not be in a hurry to believe myself his first object. When I am in company with him, I will not be wishing. In short, I will do my best.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
The speaker urges patience and restraint in romantic pursuits, warning against haste and self‑importance.
In simple terms: Be patient and humble in love.
Key Takeaway
Avoid rushing into relationships.
Themes
patience
humility
romance
Mood
thoughtful
calm
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- courtship
- first meetings
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
self‑control
social expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance desire and patience?
- What signs tell you to slow down?
A Different Perspective
Rushing can lead to misjudgment and hurt.
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