Pride Quote by Jane Austen
““misery such as mine has no pride. I care not who knows that I am wretched. The triumph of seeing me so may be open to all the world. Elinor, Elinor, they who suffer little may be proud and independent as they like—may resist insult, or return mortification— but I cannot. I must feel—I must be wretched—and they are welcome to enjoy the consciousness of it that can.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
The speaker embraces suffering as a unique identity, finding value in being openly wretched while others hide theirs.
In simple terms: She sees worth in openly feeling wretched.
Key Takeaway
Accept and own your pain.
Themes
suffering
identity
authenticity
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
personal
philosophical
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- personal healing
- relationship repair
Key Concepts
existentialism
self‑acceptance
Questions to Reflect On
- How does acknowledging pain change self‑perception?
- Can vulnerability become strength?
A Different Perspective
Not everyone can find pride in pain; some may seek to mask it.
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