Accomplishment Quote by Jane Austen
“I know so many who have married in the full expectation and confidence of some one particular advantage in the connection, or accomplishment, or good quality in the person, who have found themselves entirely deceived, and been obliged to put up with exactly the reverse. What is this but a take in?”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
People often marry expecting specific advantages, only to be disappointed when reality differs.
In simple terms: Expectations can mislead in marriage.
Key Takeaway
Align expectations with reality.
Themes
marriage
expectations
disillusionment
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
literary
advice
When to use this quote
- arranged marriages
- online dating
Key Concepts
social pressure
self‑deception
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities truly matter to you?
- How can you assess compatibility honestly?
A Different Perspective
Idealized expectations may cause resentment.
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