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Diminish Quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld

“Self-love increases or diminishes for us the good qualities of our friends, in proportion to the satisfaction we feel with them; and we judge of their merit by the manner in which they act towards us.” quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld
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“Self-love increases or diminishes for us the good qualities of our friends, in proportion to the satisfaction we feel with them; and we judge of their merit by the manner in which they act towards us.”

Francois de La Rochefoucauld

About This Quote

We evaluate friends based on how they treat us, which is tied to our own self‑esteem.

In simple terms: Friendship quality mirrors our self‑love.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑respect to attract healthier relationships.

Themes

friendship self‑esteem judgment social perception

Mood

introspective thoughtful

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • social circles
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

reciprocity psychology esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your self‑image shape your view of others?
  • Can you separate personal satisfaction from judging friends?
A Different Perspective

If we love ourselves, we may overlook others' flaws.

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