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Divorced Quote by James Salter

“THEY WERE DIVORCED IN THE fall. I wish it could have been otherwise. The clarity of those autumn days affected them both. For Nedra, it was as if her eyes had been finally opened; she saw everything, she was filled with a great, unhurried strength. It was still warm enough to sit outdoors. Viri…” quote by James Salter
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““THEY WERE DIVORCED IN THE fall. I wish it could have been otherwise. The clarity of those autumn days affected them both. For Nedra, it was as if her eyes had been finally opened; she saw everything, she was filled with a great, unhurried strength. It was still warm enough to sit outdoors. Viri walked, the old dog wandering behind him. The fading grass, the trees, the very light made him dizzy, as if he were an invalid or starving. He caught the aroma of his own life passing. All during the proceedings, they lived as they always had, as if nothing were going on. The judge who gave her the final decree pronounced her name wrong. He was tall and decaying, the pores visible in his cheeks. He misread a number of things; no one corrected him. It was November. Their last night together they sat listening to music—it was Mendelssohn—like a dying composer and his wife. The room was peaceful, filled with beautiful sound. The last logs burned. “Would you like some ouzo?” she asked. “I don’t think there is any.” “We drank it all?” “Some time ago.””

James Salter

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Sport and a Pastime, James Salter, 1979

A divorced couple experiences a bittersweet, reflective night, confronting past choices and the lingering ache of what could have been.

In simple terms: Divorce brings lingering longing and quiet reflection.

Key Takeaway

Embrace present moments despite past regrets.

Themes

love loss reflection memory acceptance

Mood

melancholy introspective poignant

Type

literary reflective emotional

When to use this quote

  • evening with a partner
  • listening to music
  • sharing a drink
  • contemplating past decisions
  • accepting finality

Key Concepts

existentialism nostalgia human frailty

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does the autumn setting symbolize for their relationship?
  • How do small rituals help process loss?
A Different Perspective

The narrative may romanticize pain, overlooking the need for forward healing.

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