Apple pie Quote by Jacqueline Kelly
““That night, when SanJuanna had cleared the main course and brought dessert in, my mother called for quiet and said, "Boys, I have an announcement to make. Your sister made the apple pies tonight. I'm sure we will all enjoy them very much." "Can I learn how, ma'am?" said Jim Bowie. "No, J.B. Boys don't bake pies," Mother said. "Why not?" he said. "They have wives who make pies for them." "But I don't have a wife." "Darling, I'm sure you will have a very nice one someday when you're older, and she'll make you many pies. Calpurnia, would you care to serve?" Was there any way I could have a wife, too? I wondered as I cut through the browned C and promptly shattered the entire crust.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: Family dinner scene, unknown publication, unknown date
The anecdote highlights gender expectations and personal longing for companionship, using humor to expose societal norms.
In simple terms: Men feel pressure to have wives; they joke about it.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and question gender stereotypes.
Themes
gender roles
humor
longing
family dynamics
Mood
lighthearted
thoughtful
Type
social
reflective
When to use this quote
- family meals
- dating
- career choices
- social gatherings
Key Concepts
social expectations
companionship
identity
tradition
Questions to Reflect On
- How do cultural norms shape personal desires?
- What steps can break gendered expectations?
A Different Perspective
The humor may downplay serious inequality.
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