Behavior Quote by Jack Kornfield
“The longing for initiation is universal and for modern youth, it is a desperate need. When nothing is offered in the way of spiritual initiation to prove one's entry into the world of men and women, initiation happens instead in the road or the street, in cars at high speed, with drugs, with dangerous sex, with weapons. However troubling, this behavior is rooted in a fundamental truth; a need to grow.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Wise Heart by Jack Kornfield, 2008
Modern youth lack formal rites of passage, so they seek risky experiences to fulfill a deep need for growth and belonging.
In simple terms: Youth seek risky rites when proper initiation is missing.
Key Takeaway
Provide healthy pathways for growth.
Themes
growth
ritual
youth
risk
belonging
Mood
concerned
hopeful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- urban youth programs
- mentor relationships
- structured rites
- community projects
- educational workshops
Key Concepts
initiation
psychology
social development
Questions to Reflect On
- What healthy rites can societies offer?
- How can mentors guide youth toward constructive growth?
A Different Perspective
Risky behaviors may cause harm and not replace true development.
