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“Long visits don't make for good friends.” quote by J. M. Coetzee
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“Long visits don't make for good friends.”

J. M. Coetzee

About This Quote

Source Novel: Disgrace by J. M. Coetzee, 1999

Superficial or infrequent interactions hinder deep trust and intimacy, leading to weak friendships.

In simple terms: Rare visits prevent strong bonds.

Key Takeaway

Invest time to nurture relationships.

Themes

friendship trust communication

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • work collaborations
  • online friendships
  • long-distance relationships

Key Concepts

social depth relationship quality

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you deepen a friendship despite limited time?
  • What actions show commitment beyond visits?
A Different Perspective

Even occasional visits can be meaningful if intentional; quantity alone doesn't guarantee quality.

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