Love Quote by Irvin D. Yalom
““Sekcirajte dublje svoje motive. Naći ćete da niko nikada nije učinio ništa uzvišeno za drugoga. Svi postupci su usmjereni ka sebi, sve usluge sebi, sva ljubav je ljubav prema sebi. Izgledate iznenađeni ovim komentarom? Možda imate na umu one koje volite. Zaronite dublje i shvatićete da ne volite njih: ono što volite su prijatni osjećaji koje takva ljubav stvara u vama!””
About This Quote
Source Book: Existential Psychotherapy, 1995
Self‑interest drives most actions; love and service often mask personal gain, leading to hidden motives.
In simple terms: People act for themselves, even when helping others.
Key Takeaway
Recognize self‑interest behind altruistic acts.
Themes
self‑interest
altruism
motivation
Mood
introspective
curious
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- personal reflection
- relationship dynamics
- volunteer work
Key Concepts
existential psychology
human nature
Questions to Reflect On
- What motives underlie your kindness?
- Can you separate self‑interest from genuine care?
A Different Perspective
Altruistic behavior can sometimes be genuine, not merely self‑serving.
