Ask yourself Quote by Ian Thomas Malone
““If you’re in doubt as to whether or not a question is inappropriate, here’s a helpful tip. Ask yourself if you would feel comfortable asking that question to a cisgender person. Generally speaking we as a society don’t around asking people about their private parts. They’re called private for a reason.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Public Discussion on Gender Sensitivity, 2022
Question appropriateness can be judged by imagining asking it to a cisgender person; privacy norms guide respectful inquiry.
In simple terms: Use privacy as a guide for respectful questions.
Key Takeaway
Ask if the question respects privacy.
Themes
respect
privacy
gender sensitivity
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advisory
ethical
When to use this quote
- workplace meetings
- social media interactions
- educational settings
Key Concepts
social norms
ethical questioning
Questions to Reflect On
- How would you rephrase a sensitive question?
- What privacy standards apply in your environment?
A Different Perspective
May not address all cultural contexts of privacy.
