Age Quote by Hugh Bonneville
“In the age of the camera phone it's a bit weird when you're sitting having dinner in a restaurant and people think they're being very subtle taking a photo while in fact they're being very obvious. When you're in a middle of a mouthful with friends or family and people come up asking for a photograph, that's when you want to say, 'Actually, I'm going to say no; I'd like to finish my meal. This is my time.'”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Radio Talk "Dining Etiquette in the Digital Age", 2022
The quote highlights the tension between social expectations to capture moments and personal desire for uninterrupted time, urging assertiveness.
In simple terms: People often ignore subtle cues and take obvious photos; be firm about your time.
Key Takeaway
Set boundaries to protect personal moments.
Themes
social media
privacy
etiquette
Mood
considerate
firm
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- dining out
- family gatherings
- public events
Key Concepts
assertiveness
boundary setting
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- When should you politely decline a photo request?
- How can you signal your desire for privacy without offense?
A Different Perspective
May seem confrontational in cultures valuing hospitality.
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